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How To Improve; Every Day

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How to improve every day? Ugh, a bit heavy isn’t it?

No worries. With a little effort, we can tackle this one.

Sometimes we just have to dumb it down and ask the right question. A question that will lead us to the result we want. Let’s have at it!

“What would happen if we acted as if every day could lead to only one of two results? – Progression or Regression.”

Think about it; how conscious of our behavior would we be if we acted as if we were in a continual process of progressing or regressing our professional competencies, intellect, communication skills, social behaviors, and personal development?

Well…we are!

For better or worse, we’re simply not the same when we go to bed at night. This is such a simple but empowering principle to live by, and it has personally changed my life. (more…)

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5 Steps to Improve Your Beliefs

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“Well, that’s just what I believe…”

Have you ever heard this gem of a statement and cringed? Have you ever said it?!

Yup. I have.

Unfortunately, it’s often synonymous with “I don’t like considering the fact that I may be wrong.”

Refusing to challenge our beliefs can be a BIG problem considering our beliefs are what drive our decisions, and subsequently, our actions.

Some of you may already be thinking, — “I will never compromise my beliefs!”

While I understand why you might initially might think this …you’re wrong (sorry!).

No offense intended.

Seriously though, think about how often we change our beliefs all the time! Best business practices, what to wear, what’s the best wine. Honestly, are any of you dressing the same way you did in the 1970’s? I doubt it, but please send pics if you are!

Most of us update our beliefs all the time. Unfortunately, we don’t often update the ones that matter.

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4 Reasons You Shouldn’t “Conquer” Fear

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“Conquer fear!” “Overcome Fear!” “No Fear!”

It feels like the impossible battle cry doesn’t it? Lets flip the lens around for a minute. Maybe we’re being a little too harsh on fear.

Is there a better alternative than constantly thinking of fear as an enemy to be destroyed or overcome?

I don’t think the problem is that we experience fear. The problem is, we’re not in the habit of utilizing fear as an asset or tool that can be useful when needed, and set aside when its not.

We too often put fear to work in situations where it’s not serving our current need. It’s often like using a cannon to cut a wedding cake. Messy!

We would be well served in remembering that there are only TWO fears that we are actually born with. The fear of falling, and the fear of loud noises. All of our other fears come from things we’ve “learned.” And you already know that everything we “learn” isn’t necessarily true. (more…)

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New Perspective, Renewed Confidence

“When someone tells you that they believe in you, when they tell you that you can accomplish anything, that your dreams are NOT ridiculous, that you are capable of absolutely anything, that you are worth more than you could ever imagine, that you DO matter, and you can make a difference, when they understand that you have fears, but urge you to go beyond them, to let go of self-doubt and hesitation, when they tell you these things, believe them, every time, because if you truly believe, you will realize, that they are always, always right.” – Aaron Keith Hawkins

You know those moments when you feel your confidence has been completely obliterated? Like life is constantly blindsiding you and knocking you to your knees? Sometimes it may happen to us so often it feel like we were born without the ability to consistently accomplish anything significant or truly valuable.

Stand tall my friend. The only thing you need is some new perspective. Your awesomeness is always there, just waiting to be acknowledged and directed by its owner. You.

It’s time to see the real you, and regain the confidence that is rightfully yours.

Much like the “voice” in this story… (more…)

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